However, the fundamental system remains the same; it is considered socially acceptable to get people to do what you want them to do by punishing them when they don’t. Yet, he was relying on a cultural bias that we have, where we believe the emotional pain we cause people doesn’t count as real pain. But, the pain was severe enough to cause me to consent to Free Online Sex Cams that I didn’t want. I should point out, sometimes when setting boundaries with people, we do have to cause them pain. How much pain? Well, enough pain that I think of the four options I see I had – endure his questioning and keep saying no, punch him in the face, consent to sex, and walk about the city until daybreak – I now believe walking around the city until daybreak would have been the safest and least painful option. If you wouldn’t punch someone in the face over something, I think you shouldn’t twitter shame them over it either. However, if he was punching me I would have been seen as within my rights to punch him back.
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What he was doing, was to try to put me in enough pain that I would bend to his will. When you try to get someone to do what you want them to do by giving them the silent treatment, what you’re really trying to do is put someone in enough pain that they bend to your will. We force people to bend to our will by making them suffer for not listening to us, and people with more power basically just have more means of causing disobedient people pain. So start listening to your sexual feelings, urges and follow them, because they will lead you to the Motherland! ? If this page is not the place for this discussion or it is offensive in some way I will remove it. Because the thing is, his constant questioning, his refusal to acknowledge or in any way respond to my emotional state, was actively causing me pain.
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